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CHEATING IN A RELATIONSHIP: IT'S ALL OUR FAULTS


 CHEATING IN A RELATIONSHIP: ITs ALL OUR FAULTS .

Let's leave the blame game. We all share in the mess and iniquities.We all have the carnal bodies. No man is licensed to double date, so is the lady but here we are with many girlfriends and many boyfriends.

 Today is essentially a generation full of contradiction and opposite, where we all sing songs of fidelity but quietly keeping maids and side cocks, where we do not only have plan B in relationship but CDEFGH......! We rebelled against nature, entirely different from what we were originally known.

 In the days of the past, once you're known in a relationship, you remain steadfast and keep your fate with God. You dared not have an alternative like standby or plan B. That was the order of those days. Gone are those days where ladies were betrothed to men, when men meet their wives untouched, they deflowered them, when the blood of their virginity was their pride. The days of descent dressing, where ladies wrapped themselves from the lustful gaze of doting young men.

 Until we quickly readjust and embrace the demand  of nature by transforming our attitude and behaviour to the beautiful old days when men cling onto their wifely steadfastness, when men were defiant to the provocative gaits of young maidens, when men resolve to lavish their earned kobo on their wives in support and succour, when men spoil their partners with total love and devotion, when men stop comparing their partners with harlots who turn 360° on bed, when guys know that dating is not premised on money but ladies cannot repel temptations from rich men when they're dating a broke ass nigga. 

 It is that time when we rebuke slay Queens, when we resist and refused to be gold diggers, when ladies stop testing all penises, when we value the potency of our men's Dick as Mr Macho's, when we stop denigrating and designating men's bed performance as Mr 2 minutes, when we stop calling friends conference for the flaws and shortcomings of our partners

 It is then and then that we'll enjoy uninterrupted affection and peace of mind from the amagidon of cheating and infidelity of our partners if not, the blame remained with us.  This is the generation we find ourselves.


Ndah Jibrin Agboni 

Write in From Gwagwalada, Abuja.

Comments

  1. UnknownNovember 28, 2020 at 7:48 AM

    Absolutely all's not well with this generation, but with this kind of educative campaign we'll soon find change's.

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